
Becoming Better Together Book Christian or Community Version
Becoming Better Together: The RAM plan for growing together when life is pulling you apart
Becoming Better Together is based on the evidence-based Couple LINKS program that has been taught to more than half a million marriages worldwide in churches, community coalitions, prisons, universities, social agencies, and in every branch of the military. Couples learn a common relationship language with the Relationship Attachment Model (RAM). Research has found that couples who learned the RAM plan for regular couple meetings experienced an increase in their commitment TWICE what the average marriage course accomplishes. Couples also improved in their communication, sexual closeness, and ability to meet each other's needs and wants. The divorce rate lowered over 20% during a ten-year period in communities where the Couple LINKS course was regularly taught. Becoming Better Together is a proven method for sustaining closeness in your marriage, surfacing your deficits, and intentionally strengthening the five major bonds of your love.